Newsletter 2017-1026 Week 4

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October 26, 2017
TABLE OF CONTENTS
THIS WEEKEND

Annual Meeting

October 29         
Our Annual Meeting will be held THIS SUNDAY, October 29 at 12pm.  Lunch will be provided by the board.  Attendance is very important as a quorum (30 percent of membership) is needed to approve the budget, elect officers, and pass any other resolutions as needed. Also, members will be polled for search committee recommendations at that time. Please plan on attending!

Please click here to view the Annual Meeting packet on our website

Soup and the Sources & Halloween Potluck

HALLOWEEN POTLUCK: TRANSORM YOURSELF!
FRIDAY October 27, 6PM


Join us at the Fellowship for a fun spooky Halloween potluck! We are combining this month’s Soup & Sources with the Halloween Party. We will have activities, games, a costume contest, and a youth group led Haunted House in the basement. All ages are invited to come have fun. Sign-up for a Halloween themed dish to share.

Click here to sign up for the Halloween Potluck and Soup & Sources.  

T.R.U.U. Youth Group

UU Fellowship of Midland’s Youth Group invites youth in grades 6th through 12th to its meetings for fun, community projects and field trips.  On Friday, October 27 at 5pm, youth will have fun creating a Haunted House for the Halloween Party.

Sunday Morning Service at 10:30am

October 29         
“Celebrating Life and Death”
This is the season when the ancients believed that the veil between the living and the dead was especially thin.  It is the season of Samhain, the days of All Hallows, All Saints, and All Souls, and el Dia de los Muertos, various ways of commemorating the dead and of recognizing our own mortality.  A worship service for all ages, celebrating life and death.  Costumes welcome! 
Rev. Connie Grant leading.
NEWS OF THE WEEK

Honoring the History of UUFoM

You are the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Midland!

Sunday, November 12 will be a special day honoring UUFOM’s history. During the worship service at 10:30, members who have joined through the decades since the founding in 1954 will tell us about their memories of the Fellowship during the decade in which they joined. Following the service, everyone will be invited to post their memories of events significant to them. A lunch of lasagna, salad, and bread will be provided for all; please bring cookies or bars to share for dessert if you can. Activities for children will be available after the service.

Hosted by the Transition Team (Pete Carlson, Linda Rector, and Dan Sealey, with Rev. Connie Grant).

Ministerial Search Committee

At the UUFoM Annual Meeting on October 29, we will begin the process of selecting ministerial search committee members.

All members are eligible to nominate any five members of the congregation to serve on the search committee.  The members whose names appear most often on the nomination ballot will be contacted to verify their willingness to serve on the search committee.  The top ten who are willing to serve will appear on an election ballot submitted to the membership.  As you are considering who to nominate to serve on the search committee, please keep in mind the qualifications and exclusions below.

All members of the search committee should be:
  • Known and respected by others in the congregation.
  • More strongly committed to the congregation as a whole than to any subgroup.
  • Well informed about the demands and time requirements of search committee membership. (During some stages of the search, the committee may meet weekly.  In 2019 there will be times when the committee will meet with a candidate from Friday evening through Sunday afternoon.)
  • Members should promise to attend every meeting, and expect to give about 250-400 hours over the coming year and a half. 
  • Balanced by sex, age, interests, and tenure of membership to reflect the diversity of the congregation.
  • Major areas of church life such as religious education, social action, property management, finance, and music should be represented by participants, not partisans
  • Balanced by attributes:  organizational ability, broad theological awareness, computer skills.
  • Not paid members of the church staff,
  • Pledged to conduct a search that is fair and nondiscriminatory with respect to race, color, disability, sex, sexual orientation, age, and national origin.
  • Committed to maintain confidentiality and to seek consensus.
  • Capable of both self-assertion and compromise.
  • Not prone to extreme reactions to ministers. The previous ministers’ strongest supporters or opponents are rarely the best choice.
  • Well suited to teamwork:  a search committee is no place for Lone Rangers!
Members who are not eligible for election to the search committee are:
  • members of the previous search committee – Jon Cleland-Host, Judith Hill, Michaele Malecki
  • paid staff – Sandy Hay, Heather Cleland-Host, Andrew Schulz
  • 2018 board members – Sara Clavez, Jill Haver Crissman, Sara Schulz, Andy Salogar, Barb Rajewski, Kevin King
  • Transition Team members – Pete Carlson,  Linda Rector, Dan Sealey
For more information about UUA recommendations regarding the search process:
https://www.uua.org/sites/live-new.uua.org/files/settlement_handbook.pdf

Pastoral Care Volunteer List

We are compiling an updated volunteer list where you can identify ways to help a fellowship member in need.

If you have not yet filled out a form they are still available on the table in the foyer or you can fill one out online. 

Please click here to fill out the Pastoral Care Volunteer Form online
 

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UPCOMING EVENTS

Pasty Fundraiser

We need help in the kitchen on Friday, November 10th and Saturday, November 11th to prepare pasties for the Pasty Sale.  Responsibilities include cutting vegetables, blending the filling mixture, making crust, assembling the pasties, timing the pasties in the ovens, wrapping finished pasties, doing dishes and cleaning the kitchen among other jobs.  Six or more per shift will work out well.  Sign up by clicking here, sending an email to [email protected] or signup on the sheet at the Fellowship. 

In the past, this fundraiser has been successful in part because the ingredients and supplies have been donated. In anticipation of making and selling 260 pasties, we will need many ingredients.  The complete list of ingredients can be found on our website

Please have all ingredients to the Fellowship kitchen by Sunday, November 5th with the exception of the ground beef and pork.  The ground meat (FRESH – NOT FROZEN) should be at the Fellowship in the refrigerator by Friday, November 10th.

You can sign up here for your donation, email [email protected], or sign up on the sheet at the Fellowship.  Please fill in the date when you deliver items to the kitchen or email [email protected].

Finally, we will be having a Pasty Fundraiser in November!  Click here to place your order or sign up at the Fellowship for a Traditional (beef and pork mix) or a Vegetarian (lentils with olive and sesame seed oil) Pasty, or both!  You will be able to pick up your frozen pasty(s) at the Fellowship starting November 12th.  Cost:  $5 each

A Chosen Faith Discussion Group

First Meeting is MONDAY night at 7pm

An exploration for adults of sources from which Unitarian Universalism draws, based on A Chosen Faith: An Introduction to Unitarian Universalism by John Buehrens and Forrest Church.  Suitable for longtime members as well as those who may be new to Unitarian Universalism, led by Rev. Connie Grant. Please sign up by emailing [email protected], registering on the "Sources" bulletin board at the Fellowship or sign up here. Plan to attend all the sessions or as many as you can.  

All meetings are 7:00 – 8:30 pm. Please note date changes in bold. 
Monday, Oct 30: Introduction and overview
Tuesday, Nov 14: Direct experience of transcending mystery and wonder
Tuesday, Dec 12: Words and deeds of prophetic women and men
Tuesday, Jan 30: Wisdom from the world’s religions
Tuesday, Feb 20: Jewish and Christian teachings (loving our neighbors)
Tuesday, Mar 20: Humanist teachings (reason and science)
Tuesday, Apr 17: Spiritual teachings of Earth-centered traditions
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Covenant Group Facilitators Wanted

Are you interested in facilitating a Covenant Group as part of a newly-launched small group ministry program?  A Covenant Group is a small relational group made up of six to twelve people who meet regularly on an ongoing basis for their own spiritual growth and for connection with each other and with the Fellowship.  Covenant Group members share what going on in their lives and explore a topic of mutual interest, within a structured format and a covenant for their own group’s relationship and interaction. 

The role of a facilitator is to help the group stay on track and accomplish its purpose.  A facilitator might choose to use pre-existing session plans or to build a group around a focus such as aging, social concerns, or play. 

Orientation of facilitators will be through participation in a facilitators’ group, which will continue to meet monthly.  Facilitator orientation is planned for the fall, with program launch in January. 

Do you have an idea for the focus of a group you would like to lead? Please contact Rev. Connie Grant at [email protected] or Cathy French at [email protected] with ideas or questions.
Every Monday 6pm

Three Jewels Sangha meets Mondays at 6pm for meditation and discussion.  Three Jewels Sangha is an open group that welcomes all within reach of the Tri-City area who are interested in gathering in community with others practicing Buddhism or Buddhist meditation, or those just exploring different meditation practices. For more information, check the Sangha out on Facebook: Three Jewels Sangha of Midland (UUFOM)
https://www.facebook.com/ThreeJewelsSanghaOfMidlanduufom

Ancient Shores Covenant of UU Pagans (CUUPS)

November 19th 12:15pm

Ancient Shores is the UUFOM chapter of CUUPS. The group explores pagan religions, historical points of interest - both recent and ancient, and engages in community rituals to celebrate the natural cycle of the world that surrounds us.  We meet on the Third Sundays of each month after the service.  https://www.facebook.com/ancientshorescuups/
 

Women's Group

November 5th 12pm

Note MEETING DATE Change!  
Join us for fellowship, conversation and fun!  The next Women's Group is meeting Sunday, November 5th from 12pm-1pm after the service.  Childcare will be provided!  
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NOTES FROM THE SACRED GROVE

Pine Warbler

In mid-September, at the local chemical plant where I clean, I saw a small bird huddled against a cold, bare, concrete wall outside one of my buildings.  She had nothing to shield her except the wall and some scraggly weeds that had grown up through the cracks in the pavement.  She appeared to be a fledgling and I know you're not supposed to touch them.  I stepped quite close to her and she puffed up her light yellow feathers, huddling closer to her only meager source of protection.  I left her and went inside to continue my job, all the while trying to think of what I could do to help her.  A chemical plant is no place for a baby bird to learn how to be an adult.  Unable to think of another way to help, I took the cap off of my water bottle, filled it with water, and set it close beside her.  Shortly thereafter, I left for the day.

I was hopeful the next day when I saw no sign of her next to the wall.  As I rounded the corner of the building, I spotted her, hiding behind a large brave scraggly weed in a chemical plant that produces herbicides. She was dead and probably had been for several hours. I took some paper towels and gently wrapped her up, putting her in my car and drove her to a place I find peaceful and sacred.  I didn't know if I was doing the right thing, but couldn't bear for her body to decompose there, so far away from where she should have lived.  Following my soul’s guidance, I carried her into the small section of woods behind our Fellowship.  I wandered aimlessly, until I found the right spot to lay her down with Mother Earth. There lay a bedraggled seagull feather, aged and half buried by undergrowth.  As I laid her to rest on the pine cones, I said to her, “You were not born where you should have been.  You suffered from the desolation that man has wrought.  I don't know if I'm doing something that the spirits would approve of, but I feel you should not go to your rest  on the dark cold pavement. So I'm bringing you back here, to rest as close as I can put you, in a place you should have had a life.”  To our Mother Earth, I said, “I am sorry for what has befallen your little one.  I hope what I have done, will make her spirit happy.  That generations of her kind to come, will find the world more suitable to their happiness."  I placed the seagull feather I had found, upright in the Earth, as a marker.

I silently walked back to my car, barefoot.  I could feel the grass and the pine pitch sticking to my feet.  When I climbed into my car, the radio was playing Native American flute music, which was a rarity on that station.  I find this to be one of the most sacred and spiritually moving forms of music.  At the end, the radio announcer called the song, Dance of the Children.  I found this fitting and a sign from the Spirit that I had done the right thing.  I looked up the tiny soul's species and found her to be a Pine Warbler.  I had chosen to lay her at the foot of a pine, just inside the edge of the little patch of woods at the back of the parking lot.  Sometimes there are just too many coincidences shown by the Spirit, to be happenstance.  When something rings true in your soul, you can take comfort in knowing you have done well.

Jessie Parham

 

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Every month Unitarian Universalists are gathering, celebrating, learning and sharing in the great big world outside the crossroads of Wackerly and Jefferson.  
From Shannon Sonoras, Engagement Team
United Nations Sunday is coming up. It is that month of the year when congregations take time during their weekly worship service to talk about our world community. This weekend, on the Sunday closest to United Nations Day, October 24th, Unitarian Universalist congregations will be reflecting upon this year's UN Sunday theme, Arm in Arm: Interfaith Action to Disarm Our Planet. Many had congregants who attended the 2017 Intergenerational Spring Seminar in April and learned about ways to put their faith in action for peace and disarmament. They might be holding a multi-generational service this Sunday, giving youth Seminar attendees a chance to share about the knowledge and skills they learned in New York City. It is also a time to celebrate the critical progressive leadership that the Unitarian Universalist United Nations Office has brought to our work at the UN since 1962, advocating for human rights for all, the protection of vulnerable populations, and the preservation of our sacred Earth. Read more here...
Check out the First Parish in Bedford’s plans for United Nations Sunday here. Very cool!
Unpacking Whiteness – See what UU World senior editor is saying about racial injustice and what we can do about it. While this article primarily focuses on interactions in the UUA, the messages are easily translated into our everyday lives. Let’s continue the conversation.
Places to Go, Things to See
Many of you were introduced to The Mountain Retreat and Learning Center and Many Hands Peace Farm this last summer. Their latest newsletter highlights how they’ve been filling their busy days, their Feed A Bee grant project and an impressive calendar of retreats, camps and CONs happening through July, 2018. And it’s less than a 12 hour drive from Midland! They even have an Etsy store where they sell essential oils and other products. Take a peek.
Putting Economic Justice on the Ballot!
“MUUSJN is honored to work as a partner with the Economic Justice Coalition of Michigan to help launch two popular ballot initiatives to bring economic security to Michigan families. Visit their Facebook page for the latest on news and events!
This is My ReligionThis beautiful 3 minute video is posted on the Unitarian Universalist Association homepage. I wonder what you’d say if you were interviewed.
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FELLOWSHIP INFORMATION

Pastoral Care Ministry Team 

Pastoral Care October contact:
Mary Johnson (989) 859-1490

Pastoral Care November contact:
Donna Wedge (989) 600-7567


New to our Fellowship?  Just discovered you might need more help with an issue than you had counted on?  Our Pastoral Care Ministry Team is here for you.  We can provide a meal, a ride, some respite or a supportive ear and a cup of coffee.  Don't be shy – we are a covenant family.

Newsletter

Publication will be each Thursday, with a submission deadline the Monday before.  The idea is to provide more information, more often, in ways that are usable and useful.
 
Please send your submissions to [email protected] by Monday of your intended week of publication.

Fellowship Office

Fellowship Office Hours
Monday 10am-1pm
Tuesday, Wednesday, & Thursday 9am-3pm
[email protected]

Rev. Connie Grant
Office Hours
Tuesday, Wednesday, & Thursday 11am-3pm or by appointment
[email protected]
(847) 840-8542
In case of pastoral emergency, call anytime

Wendy Altmeier
Office Assistant

Office Hours
Monday 10am-1pm
Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday 8:30am-1pm
[email protected]
989-631-1162

Heather Cleland-Host
Director of Religious Education

Office Hours
Tues. & Thurs. 1pm-4 pm
Weekday mornings and Sunday by appointment
[email protected]

 
Sandy Hay
Sexton

[email protected]
(918) 698-0311
In case of building emergency, call anytime
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